cliffcobb62's Space http://cliffcobb62.posterous.com Most recent posts at cliffcobb62's Space posterous.com Sun, 27 Nov 2011 15:20:00 -0800 Easy Self Confidence http://cliffcobb62.posterous.com/easy-self-confidence http://cliffcobb62.posterous.com/easy-self-confidence Self confidence is an amazing quality. It can help you to create the life of your dreams. It is more responsible for accomplishment in people's lives than any other single high quality.

You could take two people; one with tons of self confidence and mediocre talent, and the other with tons of talent but very little self confidence. Put them in almost any kind of competition that involves the approval of other people, and the person with the the bare minimum talent, is going to win out, almost every time.

Now consider two men. One is much better than normal wanting Although the other is actually less than typical searching. The better wanting man is very shy and introverted. The less attractive guy is oozing with self confidence. Put them in a party situation where they don't know any person. Have them see who can get the most cell phone quantitys from attractive girls.

Do you need to guess the outcome? In almost every circumstance, the less desirable man, the one with the self confidence, is going to leave with not only the most mobile phone ranges, but almost certainly with one of the girls on his arm. The good seeking guy will most likely not even get one amount, and will, almost undoubted, go home alone.

Generally speaking, people with self confidence make better sales people. They get promoted more. They make more pay. They have more close friends, more sex, more fun, and they even tend to have more overall happiness. Not only that, but the people they are closest to tend to be happier, as a result.

The question has to be asked. Is self confidence something you either have or you don't? It sure seems like the people in high school who lacked self confidence are the same ones lacking it at the thirty year high school reunion. There are been a lot of studies with regards to the question of whether self confidence is nature or nurture. The results may shock you.

The majority of these studies conclude that self confidence is largely influenced by environment and experience. Even in cases where one sibling may be extremely outgoing and the other is extremely timid, the timid person often becomes timid as a result of the outgoing nature of the other sibling.

The conclusion of a recent study done at the college of Edinburgh in Scotland, said that extroverted people are usually molded. That is, they were not born that way, but were formed into extroverts as a result of their life knowledges and their mindsets.

The famous psychoanalyst Carl Jung, the man who actually coined the terms, introvert and extrovert, came to the same conclusion several a long time previously. In his long and celebrated career, he helped many of his good friends and clients to transform from being introverted to being extroverted.

This flies in the face of conventional knowledge. Most people would tell you that people genuinely don't transform, for the most part. However, the question is, can people who lack self confidence do anything to actually create self confidence. The answer to that is a resounding, yes. (As to the percentage of people who actually do something to modify their level of confidence, that another answer completely, and not the subject of this article.)

If you are skeptical of this premise consider the research that was done in interviews with some of the most captivating public converseers in modern history. The vast majority of them admitted to initially being terrified at the mere potential customer of getting up and communicateing just before a large group of people. Yet, they entirely transformed who they were, in this regard. Most of them developed the ability to communicate earlier than a absolutely engrossed audience, with no preparation whatsoever.

So, how did they go about creating this transformation? They went ahead and got up on stage and started offering speeches, even though they were absolutely terrified. That is known as the sink or swim method. Many people have been taught to swim when a parent tossed them in the water, standing by to save them if they went under.

Many of the shyest men around ladies have taken classes educated by pick up performers and transformed themselves into one of those guys who are "naturally" good in scoring with ladies. The answer is unequivocal: self confidence can be learned. It happens all the time.

Read more at: http://mindofpower.com/628/shocking-answer-to-the-question-can-self-confidenc...

Self Confidence

Permalink | Leave a comment  »

]]>
http://posterous.com/images/profile/missing-user-75.png http://posterous.com/users/cQczTEHcW6LeW cliffcobb62 cliffcobb62